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Sept 14, 2011 19:08:16 GMT -5
Post by kittypurry on Sept 14, 2011 19:08:16 GMT -5
Well I cant really share this anywhere else but my brother proposed to his girlfriend tonight. I feel sick. LOL.
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AYFKM?
Sept 14, 2011 19:11:03 GMT -5
Post by kittypurry on Sept 14, 2011 19:11:03 GMT -5
How do you pretend to be happy for someone when you think their life is going to go down the shitter from here on out?
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Sept 14, 2011 19:16:06 GMT -5
Post by lilpunkprincess on Sept 14, 2011 19:16:06 GMT -5
you just smile and wave
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sere
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Sept 14, 2011 19:22:40 GMT -5
Post by sere on Sept 14, 2011 19:22:40 GMT -5
Some people have to learn things the hard way. Love is usually one of those things. ETA: an 's' on things.
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Sept 14, 2011 19:24:46 GMT -5
Post by lilpunkprincess on Sept 14, 2011 19:24:46 GMT -5
I had to learn that when I jumped into an engagement with a complete stranger.
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Sept 14, 2011 19:27:16 GMT -5
Post by Maureen on Sept 14, 2011 19:27:16 GMT -5
Meh. Let him live and learn.
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Sept 14, 2011 19:27:27 GMT -5
Post by kittypurry on Sept 14, 2011 19:27:27 GMT -5
I just got over a bout of hardly speaking to them & decided if I wanted my brother in my sons life I just needed to grin & bare it. I hate it but there is really nothing I can do, I just wish he wouldnt be SO stupid.
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Sept 14, 2011 19:31:16 GMT -5
Post by susie on Sept 14, 2011 19:31:16 GMT -5
I'm afraid to ask why that's so awful.
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Sept 14, 2011 19:32:47 GMT -5
Post by McVooDoo on Sept 14, 2011 19:32:47 GMT -5
Well, chances are if you shun her, it'll just cause a rift. Your call.
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Sept 14, 2011 19:34:52 GMT -5
Post by kittypurry on Sept 14, 2011 19:34:52 GMT -5
I'm afraid to ask why that's so awful. Should I go there? LOL
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Sept 14, 2011 19:35:46 GMT -5
Post by kittypurry on Sept 14, 2011 19:35:46 GMT -5
Well, chances are if you shun her, it'll just cause a rift. Your call. Youre right, and I know it. Im just going to try to bite my tongue & hope for the best. I just needed to get it out.
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Sept 14, 2011 19:41:55 GMT -5
Post by susie on Sept 14, 2011 19:41:55 GMT -5
I'm afraid to ask why that's so awful. Should I go there? LOL You don't have to, LOL. I agree with Fulu. I'm sorry that it's a crappy situation though.
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Sept 14, 2011 20:02:18 GMT -5
Post by Cankles on Sept 14, 2011 20:02:18 GMT -5
Sounds like he's p*ssy whipped and there's not much you can do but try and be there for him until shit hits the fan again :\
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Sept 14, 2011 20:12:01 GMT -5
Post by Jodi on Sept 14, 2011 20:12:01 GMT -5
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Sept 14, 2011 20:21:08 GMT -5
Post by kittypurry on Sept 14, 2011 20:21:08 GMT -5
Well Ill just lay it all out I guess. Its boring tonight.
This is my brothers first serious girlfriend. They met in high school but never dated. They got together last year a month before he deployed. They stayed together until about December, when my brother told me he broke up with her & she called me telling me how immature he is. When he came back from deployment she bought a plane ticket and showed up down here without telling anyone. The next weekend he asks me what to do about it and says he thinks he just needs to stop talking to her. Forward another month he tells me shes moving down here from PA & he wants to marry her. She moved down here last month & they were staying with someone & now moved into their own place where the only way they could really afford it is if they get married. She has no job, and has never gone to college, and has little to no experience. He plans to get out of the MC next February & had planned to go to college but it seems he has given up that idea now that shes in the picture. She comes from $ so I feel like nothing my brother does is ever good enough for her & she has very high expectations. I think she will most likely get bored here, get pregnant, and trap him, but it will be his own damn fault, and then I will have to say I TOLD YOU SO. Oh & they were talking about getting married 2 months ago but not telling anyone in my family.
Short version.
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