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AYFKM?
Sept 15, 2011 6:12:11 GMT -5
Post by kittypurry on Sept 15, 2011 6:12:11 GMT -5
Im trying. Ive been spending time with her this week but I still feel uneasy about the situation. They just moved in Friday so and signed the lease Thursday. I totally get what you are saying about downgrading though. I wouldnt want to either but if it meant that we would be able to pay all ours bills I would do it. It would only be for a short while anyway. Im really trying (again) to like her for the sake of my brother.
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AYFKM?
Sept 15, 2011 6:22:17 GMT -5
Post by lil on Sept 15, 2011 6:22:17 GMT -5
Well, it is sad, if they can't afford it....they're going to end up in debt. That's the worst place to be.
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AYFKM?
Sept 15, 2011 6:56:44 GMT -5
Post by chattycathy on Sept 15, 2011 6:56:44 GMT -5
She may come from money, but any resasonable parent with money has taught their child to work for their own and manage it properly. It shouldn't be that much of a concern.
And if she comes from losers who pay her way through life and haven't taught her anything, then they'll probably continue to do so until they're broke themselves or dead. So no real reason for concern there, either.
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AYFKM?
Sept 15, 2011 7:05:01 GMT -5
Post by kittypurry on Sept 15, 2011 7:05:01 GMT -5
And that worries me. That they will continue to pay their way & they will never learn!
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AYFKM?
Sept 15, 2011 7:06:58 GMT -5
Post by chattycathy on Sept 15, 2011 7:06:58 GMT -5
It's not your problem if they learn or not. It'll be her parents problem.
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AYFKM?
Sept 15, 2011 7:08:48 GMT -5
Post by Erin on Sept 15, 2011 7:08:48 GMT -5
Honestly, she doesn't sound all that bad to me. I think you should just give her a chance. Maybe she will enroll in college after they get married or she can find a job where she doesn't have to work weekends. Being a newlywed, of course she doesn't want to work weekends. She wants to spend time with him. Let them have some marriage experience first because she can definitely change her mind about school or getting a job.
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AYFKM?
Sept 15, 2011 7:11:19 GMT -5
Post by kittypurry on Sept 15, 2011 7:11:19 GMT -5
I am giving her a chance. LOL. A third chance.
I just want better for my brother! & want him to make good choices! Is that so bad?
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Sept 15, 2011 7:22:10 GMT -5
Post by McVooDoo on Sept 15, 2011 7:22:10 GMT -5
Not bad at all, but that why he's got 2 parents to worry for him. Just be a good sis, not his momma
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