The same thing happened to one of my friends. She has 3 kids and was pregnant with her 4th. Her husband had lost his job right after she found out about #4. They had to give up the house they were renting. While I really felt bad for her, it wasn't time for them to be having another one. It's a crappy thing to happen and I do feel bad that they had to go through it. All you can do is be there for her.
She was supposed to be 11 weeks. The baby stopped growing at 9. She has to get a D&c done. That's the sucky part if it all. When I had my miscarriage it was complete and on its own. Her baby is still in there and she has a small pregnant pudge going on. On the plus side she started a new job today so hopefully that will keep her mind off it.
That's sad. I feel sorry for. Going through a d&c and everything
"I believe in pink. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing, kissing a lot. I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles." -Audrey Hepburn
that sux really bad . i understand your feeling though...as a sister you knew it wasn't right for her therefore you are relieved. as long as you don't tell her you are relieved lol...i know you wouldn't do that.