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Post by Maureen on Feb 1, 2012 16:06:50 GMT -5
Especially girls who are so completely co-dependent on their retard boyfriends that they feel suicidal the moment he steps away to do anything from take a shit to have fun with the guys. I want to stab her in the face. Repeatedly. I swear to christ if my daughter ever acts like that...
This is the little tramp niece of my daughter's father. Ugh she also posted this:
"Psychiatrist Friday at 2 maybe now I can get on the meds I need probably not even tho I really need them "
bitch, you don't need meds. You need a new mother who isn't the human version in EVERY way of Eeyore and some therapy to get over everything that family has done to you. I met this girl when she was 3 and she was so cute. Big blue eyes, freckles and a pale little face. So innocent. It's hard to see how they have destroyed her.
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Post by Deb on Feb 1, 2012 20:49:32 GMT -5
You'd be surprised at the number of girls Oldest knows like this.
They are totally consumed by having a boyfriend, that said boyfriend can't even get home 2 minutes late, because he had to stop for a red light, without major drama ensuing...
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Post by Jodi on Feb 2, 2012 12:56:21 GMT -5
You'd be surprised at the number of girls Oldest knows like this. They are totally consumed by having a boyfriend, that said boyfriend can't even get home 2 minutes late, because he had to stop for a red light, without major drama ensuing...  I'm not looking forward to the boys being teenagers. |
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Post by Deb on Feb 2, 2012 13:29:30 GMT -5
Seriously, Jodi - the girls are boy crazy starting in 5th grade.
I'm thinking about inventing a chastity belt for boys...
If you have a house phone, be prepared for it to start ringing when your oldest hits 10-11.
I'd like to know where these girls' parental units are...
Then again, I met one and I don't know how I didn't punch her lights out.
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Post by Jodi on Feb 2, 2012 13:34:59 GMT -5
lol. I'm more afraid of the boys being that age than I am of Everley. At least Luke and Connor can watch her while she is at school and we can keep track of her at home. We have a house phone, but it is in the living room. Perhaps I will make them sit in the living room and talk >  |
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Post by Maureen on Feb 2, 2012 14:09:52 GMT -5
I don't see a problem with people calling each other at that age. My daughter calls her friend all the time to see if he can hang out at the park. He plays over here, she plays over there. He's a very nice boy and his parents are a lot like me with supervision. They got each other v day presents last year.
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Post by meaniepants on Feb 2, 2012 14:31:31 GMT -5
My niece is like that. Forever has a crush or broken heart. *gags*
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Post by lilpunkprincess on Feb 2, 2012 14:44:06 GMT -5
you guys are talking about teenagers, how about the 6 year old nephew goes just the other week and says I have a girlfriend then just yesterday says I got a new one. Now that scares me. lol.
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Post by skooch on Feb 2, 2012 15:17:45 GMT -5
Joey has 4 girlfriends. One of them he hangs with on Wednesdays because she's not as pretty. Wednesdays are always half days. It is so hard to be firm when you're ready to laugh up your liver.
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Post by Deb on Feb 2, 2012 16:15:17 GMT -5
Maureen, if it was innocent like you are stating, I would have been fine with it.
It was.not.innocent. with the girls calling oldest.
These girls were fast and loose at 10-11.
And, at 10-11, they're trying to act 14-15.
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Post by skooch on Feb 2, 2012 16:18:29 GMT -5
When I was 15 I was still climbing trees and catching bugs. Granted, I made sure I had mascara and lip gloss on while I was doing it, but that's beside the point, lol.
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Post by ncnative on Feb 2, 2012 16:25:14 GMT -5
I'm thinking about inventing a chastity belt for boys... Google CB6000. |
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Post by someone on Feb 3, 2012 0:47:56 GMT -5
I'm not trying to be rude, but she might really need meds. I had major depression in middle and high school despite being in therapists most of my life. My parents didn't take me seriously and would brush it off when I would plead for help, so many won't even ask for help. I wanted my life to end and my thoughts were consumed by it. Typical girl style, I almost downed a bottle of pills at camp when I was 13 until somebody stopped me. My parents never knew this but I also self harmed for many years, it still happens once every few years as an adult when my pain is too much to handle.
I just hate the thought of somebody not getting help if they heed it. She might not really need help but a professional will be able to determine that. I doubt you would ever say anything to her face, but if you ever consider it, please don't. It's really hard to ask for help or speak about your problems and if you feel like people don't believe you, you might stop asking. I did, my parents thought I was just seeking attention and treated it like a joke. I stopped asking for help and after years I finally snapped during what I can best describe as a panic attack and I blurted out my past almost suicide attempt. I don't feel like they ever truly believed me but they did recognise I needed help.
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Post by Maureen on Feb 3, 2012 8:45:41 GMT -5
Due its not meds. I promise. I've know and been involved in this family for 12 years their solutiont to everything is to pop a pill or throw the kid at a therapist to "fix" them. My daaughters, fathers only saving grace was my family taking him in and treating him like their son. In the end some bad came from it but despite his past he is an awesome father and has become a good man. The kid needs therapy but she also needs parents to give a damn. Her mother would rather stay home on her fat ass than get a job so after a friend died and the friends wife moved in and used the life insurance to help buy a beautiful property for them, they kicked moneybags out, lost the ranch and are now living in a small travel trailer on floodland. Her little brother has some issues (personally I think he's autistic) so what does mom do? Check him into a psych hospital. All because he was scared at the dentist and ran out of the office. The poor girl thinks her family has a history of all sorts olf ailments because her granmother was a drug seeker and used multiple excuses to get pain meds from hospitals when reality is nothing was wrong with her except that she was a drug addict. And she was adopted through a church in Houston that had no family health records so the history is pretty much whatever she decides to make up.
Their poor, they've had some crappy stuff happen in life but its not an imbalance. Its life. I went through the same thing with her dad to the point that his sister and mother had him convinced he had epilepsy. The family is crazy. I'm a huge advocate for mental health but at the same time its like taking a druggie out of rehab who is clean and sticking him back with the same crackhead parents, same crackhead friends and practically putting a pipe in his hand its not going to help. She needs to ge t out of the situation and will be soon. In the meantime. I can continue to think all teenagers are stupid because they are in some form or another. Hopefully they didn't permanently fuck her up and she can go on and live to her full potential.
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Post by Maureen on Feb 3, 2012 8:47:11 GMT -5
Also, I used "suicidal" exaggeratedly.
And regardless of what I vent about here I reach out to her all the time.
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I'm not looking forward to the boys being teenagers. 
