Just wondering what you would do...

[~*Ks Mommy*~]

So, a couple days ago I posted a facebook status that I was pretty much told to delete by someone. So I deleted it to make her shut the fuck up. If you guys are on my facebook it was the one about the refund money and other money and then about all the awesome deals I found in town that day.

Anyway, so apparently this status made a couple mad so I deleted it. Then yesterday I get a call from "a person" tell me that I don't think about shit, I'm embarrassing, and to leave her out of my status. Ok cool whatever. Then she says that I lied to her because of something I supposedly said, but I didn't. So after trying to explain to her that she might have thought I meant whatever she thought I meant, that I didn't and that I didn't lie to her. She couldn't get that through her thick skull so then she starts telling me why I should be apologizing and blah blah blah. I hang up.

She calls me TWELVE times, texts me 15 times, Facebook messages me, and then calls my dad 6 times whiles I'm there...we had to leave the phone off the hook and shut off cell phones. The first text said "sorry its hard for you to hear the truth" and I said "sorry its hard for you to let things go" then I told her on the phone once that I was done talking about it.

So today she calls me, I answer thinking she'll be over it. No, she goes over the same fucking conversation AGAIN. She says I'm not understanding why she's made even though she's told me through voice, text message and facebook message. I FUCKING UNDERSTAND. I tell her to just drop it and she's acting ridiculous for calling and texting me that much.

She wants to talk about it...by telling me the same thing over and over again on a loop. I don't want to hear it and want her to drop it. What do you think?

[skooch]

I think that she's not an awesome friend at all, especially if she's mad about a fb status of YOURS that was talking about YOUR money. Since I don't know the details I can't really say much but I would drop her until she got over herself and gained a grasp on the fact that fb isn't reality.

[skooch]

And I don't think I saw the status in question.

Anyone I know?

[Maureen]

I saw that status. I don't remember exactly what it said but I'm completely lost as to why it would piss someone off. Fuck her. If someone blew my phone the fuck up like that I would be hellapissed.

[skooch]

Every time I came into extra money my big sis would argue with me since I wouldn't give her any. Just because I HAVE money to spare doesn't mean I need to send some her way.

[Maureen]

That's ridiculous.

[skooch]

Which explains why I haven't spoken to her since tax season 2010.

[~*Ks Mommy*~]

Ok, well since you guys already answered....ITS MY SISTER. She's pissed because I wrote that our mom is giving us some money. She went on to question what the hell I was thinking and why I would even write that on Facebook..

Well, because I was excited. Jesus Christ. I can kind of understand the first conversation about it, but the ones yesterday are fucking ridiculous. I told her that I blocked the status from the people in the family that are stupid, she took that as me specifically naming out every single person I listed, which I didn't. I named ONE cousin I blocked, but that was it. So then one of our cousins asked her about it yesterday so she felt like I lied to her about it...but I didn't.

She's so obsessive about shit. She is trying to convince me that I lied to her, and well, I didn't so that's just not going to work. She said she couldn't believe I was treating her that way (not talking to her) because she wanted to talk. Well, I didn't want to talk, which is an awesome thing wtih phones...If I don't want to talk about it, I don't want to. She just says the same damn thing on a loop, I'm tired of hearing about it. FInally she shut up about it but JESUS.

[~*Ks Mommy*~]

Oh and this is all going down while I'm making a 2 hour drive to go shopping with my friend. My friend is like "wtf is going on" because she's in the passenger seat basically hearing the entire conversation. Then she has to witness all my sister's obsessive shit. Then I only had like 30 mins to visit with my dad before he went to work. The second I get to dad's, my sister calls and dad gave the phone to me. I told her I was gone talking about it, I'm trying to visit with dad, my friends with me and that I'm not going to be answering her calls. She called the home phone so much that I left it off the hook and then started calling my dad's cell phone. It was pretty much her going psycho the entire time I was just trying to see dad.

RIDICULOUS. And she's 32 years old,it's not like shes a teenager or something.

[skooch]

You should post a status calling her out, making it so only she can see it, but don't tell her its private. Then when other people come to you about it, you can let her know that she's the one who spread it around.

She's being a moron though. Why does it matter if you posted about your mom giving you money? Is she jealous? If my mom sent me a monetary gift I'd be excited too and tell people. If someone got upset about it, well, maybe I deserve more presents than them.

[gardenwitch]

I was going to say block her on the phone and delete her from fb, but as it's your sister just ignore her.

And maybe set her so she can't see your status?

[Maureen]

What a crazy bitch! Holy shit.

[skooch]

Is her name Becky by chance?

[susie]

Yep, block and delete. What a psycho.

[susie]

I remember that status. I didn't see the comments on it, I just thought 'lucky bitch'.